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But there was one quote that stuck out in particular to Christina Aguilera since she was in the midst of a divorce. As People notes, Cher gave Aguilera some solid advice about the reality of having a spouse. She told her, “You know, honey, husbands come and go, but I am still Cher at the end of the day” — pretty much echoing her previous sentiments that “you don’t really need [men] to live.”
That’s not to say that Cher isn’t still looking for love, however. According to Closer Weekly, the singer is “still open to finding lasting love” after dating the likes of Tom Cruise, Warren Beatty, and Gene Simmons — as well as being married to Sonny Bono and Gregg Allman (via ABC News Radio). “I enjoyed them all!” Cher told Closer Weekly in 2017. “But I am monogamous. I have relationships, not lovers,” she added. “My relationships seem to go on for two-and-a-half years, maybe three, that’s it. The moment [it] goes into the phase of more commitment, it changes. But I haven’t given up!”