In the world of Minneapolis politics, Mayor Jacob Frey isn’t just navigating city affairs; he’s also juggling the beautiful chaos of family life. Married to Sarah Clarke, a former lobbyist turned solar energy lawyer, Frey often shares how his roles as husband and dad are the ones he cherishes most. The couple, who tied the knot in 2016, have built their life together in a Northeast Minneapolis apartment, where they’re raising their two young daughters amid the demands of public service. Their family also includes two cats, Ronda and Stella, adding to the lively household.
Recently, the Frey-Clarke household welcomed a new addition. On July 31, 2025, Sarah gave birth to their second daughter, Estelle Bloom Frey, who arrived ten days after her due date. Mayor Frey couldn’t contain his joy, calling Sarah a fighter “who handles it all with strength and grace.” Their eldest daughter, Frida, is now four and a half years old and is already embracing her role as a big sister. The family’s midwife for both births was Sakeena Futrell-Carter, the wife of St. Paul Mayor Melvin Carter, adding a unique cross-city connection to their story.
Balancing Public Service and Personal Safety
The couple’s home life has recently been thrust into the spotlight due to security concerns. In late August 2025, Sarah Clarke penned a heartfelt opinion piece in the Star Tribune, urging protesters not to target their residence. She emphasized that while she supports peaceful protest, demonstrating outside their home crosses a line when it endangers their children and neighbors. The family has already faced alarming incidents, including surveillance, vandalism, and graffiti with threatening messages like “K*ll the Mayor” scrawled on their door.
This plea comes at a time when political tensions are high, and the safety of public officials is a growing concern. Sarah’s appeal highlights the very real challenges that come with being in the public eye, especially when young kids are involved. She pointed out that their four-year-old and newborn deserve to feel safe in their own home, and she called for respectful dialogue to happen in public forums rather than outside their apartment.
A Family Anchored in Community and Resilience
Despite these challenges, the Freys remain deeply rooted in their Minneapolis community. Jacob often speaks about how fatherhood has shaped his perspective on leadership, especially in times of tragedy. Following the devastating shooting at Annunciation Catholic School in August 2025, where two children were killed and 17 others injured, Jacob Frey’s emotional response resonated with many. He stressed the need for action beyond “thoughts and prayers,” noting that the victims were kids who should have been safe in their place of worship.
The family’s commitment to Minneapolis is evident in their daily lives. From Jacob’s advocacy for affordable housing and police reform to Sarah’s work in renewable energy, they both contribute to the city’s growth and well-being. Their story is one of love, resilience, and a shared dedication to making Minneapolis a better place for all families, including their own.
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As Mayor Jacob Frey often says, the titles that matter most to him aren’t political—they’re “husband” and “dad.” And in the Frey-Clarke household, that means prioritizing bedtime stories, sibling bonds, and the simple joys of family life, even amid the complexities of leading a major city.
