DEAR DEIDRE: I’m keen to try a threesome but my girlfriend won’t agree. How do I get her on board?
It’s not that our sex life is boring – we regularly try new positions and play sex games.
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But I’ve always wanted to have a threesome. There’s something about it that really turns me on.
I’m 32, my girlfriend’s 29 and we’ve been together for two years.
I asked her a year ago if she’d be up for introducing someone else, but she immediately shut me down.
She said that if I wanted to have sex with another girl that badly, I should just break up with her.
I don’t want to do that – I really see a future with her.
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DEIDRE SAYS: While the idea of a threesome often seems like a lot of fun, it can lead to issues, such as jealousy.
Plus, there’s a high chance it won’t live up to your fantasy.
Continuously pushing the idea on your girlfriend will only cause problems.
What do you think a threesome will bring to your relationship? There may be other ways to fulfill this need – my support pack 50 Ways To Add Fun To Sex will help.
