DEAR DEIDRE: My partner of seven years is giving me mixed signals and now I’m wondering whether to call off our wedding plans.

For the past year we’ve been planning our big day but recently whenever I try to discuss arrangements he gets very short tempered with me.

Whenever I try to discuss arrangements he gets very short tempered with me

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Whenever I try to discuss arrangements he gets very short tempered with me

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We’ve both been married before and have grown up children. I’m 54 and he’s 56. 

I’ve told my family and they are delighted for us but he seems reluctant to share the news with his.

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I mentioned it in passing to one of his daughters and she seemed surprised – it was obviously news to her.

I’d already book the venue and have had initial appointments with a dress maker. But now I’m wondering whether I’m better off cancelling.

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DEIDRE SAYS: Before you do anything as drastic as call off your wedding, have a good talk with him at a quiet moment and ask him if there is anything bothering him.

Explain that you feel he’s become resistant to the idea of getting married and you feel it’s better to know if he’s having second thoughts.

I’m sending you my support pack on Looking After Your Relationship which will help.

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