DEAR DEIDRE: I AM a man of 32 but like to wear nappies.
I know it is strange and I have tried so many times to stop, but I always end up giving in and buy more and more.
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It is money that I cannot afford to spend.
I have a fetish for wearing nappies. I like the feel of them against my skin.
I live alone and keep it a secret from everyone because I know nobody would understand.
There has never been a need to tell anyone about it because I only do it in private, usually when watching porn.
I am single and have never had a girlfriend. I would like one, but I don’t know what I would say about my fetish if I were to find someone.
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DEIDRE SAYS: Fetishes like this usually stem from early unmet needs and are very hard to ignore. My Fetishes support pack explains more.
You are not harming anyone but it can complicate meeting and keeping a partner.
The best start to finding a relationship is making lots of friends, so get out there and build a busy social life.
My support pack Widening Your Social Scene has lots of suggestions to help get you started.