DEAR DEIDRE: I’m a man of 48 and I’ve never married but I’d love to have female breasts. I’ve read that herbs can help me – is that true?
I still live with my parents and I work in a garden centre.
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I’m not really interested in women or having a relationship and sometimes I’ve thought I might be gay but I’m not sure.
I’d love to have breasts though. I do sometimes dress in my mother’s clothes if she and Dad go away on holiday.
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If I had breasts, I could wear baggy clothing to hide them during the day but enjoy this feminine side of my life when I’m alone.
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DEIDRE SAYS: Some manufacturers of so-called breast enhancing medication say their products contain plant material to help, but if this had a profound effect on breast tissue then the breast augmentation surgeons would soon be out of business.
Having breasts wouldn’t necessarily make you happy.
You’re confused about your sexuality and gender but you’ll find a greater understanding and somebody to talk to through The Beaumont Society, (www.beaumontsociety.org.uk, 01582 412 220).
