DEAR DEIDRE: I’VE met the guy I will marry – he just doesn’t know it yet.
He moved in across the hall from me last month, and I instantly knew he was the one.
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He’s 20, really fit and he has the most amazing eyes and smile.
I’m 19 and I can’t stop thinking about him.
We’ve hung out a few times and get on well.
But I’m terrified he won’t like me, even though I know for sure I’m supposed to be with him.
I don’t know how to calm down and stop obsessing over him.
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DEIDRE SAYS: Take a deep breath. If he really is the one for you, he’ll know it too, and there is no hurry.
But love at first sight can be deceptive, and easily confused with lust.
Get to know him slowly and let things develop naturally.
My support pack, Finding The Love Of Your Life, might be useful to read.